Stress of a long-term health condition

We know, from our own experiences of living with Addison's or adrenal insufficiency, that having a rare and invisible health condition can cause both chronic stress and episodes of acute stress when things go wrong.  

Feeling stress associated with your diagnosis is totally normal and understandable, for some of the reasons below:

  • information overload when learning about your conditions
  • feeling of being out of control
  • feeling of lack of support from others who may not understand your needs
  • feeling alone
  • frustration with health services, and how they may fail to support you
  • changes to your quality of life following diagnosis
  • fatigue
  • additional 'life-admin' related to managing your condition
  • fear of an adrenal crisis

Coping strategies

We asked our members what they've found helpful in reducing stress and feelings of overwhelm. 

  • Having a good cry or shout! 
  • Becoming an expert patient - knowledge is power and helps you control what you can.
  • Talking to someone who ‘gets you’ - whether a friend or on an online forum.
  • Getting enough sleep and incorporating exercise, rest, and relaxation into your routine.

'Rareminds' has a fantastic Wellbeing Hub, and the 'You and Your Emotions' section goes into these points in more detail.

Explore You and Your Emotions

Managing your cortisol

You will probably have seen on our website that when the body is physically or severely emotionally stressed, it needs more cortisol than usual. 

To meet this need, people with adrenal insufficiency/Addison's have to increase their daily medication dose, in line with Sick Day Rules. However, exactly when we need to increase our steroid replacement dose in response to feeling emotionally or psychologically challenged is much harder to define.

This is because our stress responses are very individual, and what feels like a significant stress for one person may be completely manageable to someone else. In her 'Share Your Kit' blog post, Bex shares below how both 'good' and 'bad' stress can mean a need to 'top-up' your medication;

We’re all different in how we experience things. So it’s up to each of us to learn to recognise when we’re stressed and what our personal triggers are so that we can think of 'topping up' with extra hydrocortisone. And it’s worth remembering that good stress is still stress and so it brings physical demands.

What does the clinical guidance say?

The NICE Guidelines for the Identification and Management of Adrenal Insufficiency define psychological stress as;

This helps illustrate and provide real-life examples to improve understanding about the importance of 'up-dosing' in response to emotional stress.

So what do I do?
  1. Use coping strategies to manage your stress where you can
  2. If you are feeling low cortisol symptoms, follow the Sick Day Rules.
  3. Seek professional support if your symptoms of stress, low mood or anxiety are affecting your quality of life, getting worse, or continuing for an extended period.

Professional support

Anxiety and depression are serious mental health conditions which can affect anyone, regardless of culture, background or family history. So if you experience symptoms for two weeks or more, you should talk to your GP or another healthcare professional.

They will be able to carry out an assessment with you and recommend what to do next, so you can get the support that is right for you. It’s always going to be a hard thing to do, but asking for help and talking about your problems with someone can be really helpful. 

If you are unsure, always speak with your healthcare team to refer you for professional emotional support.

Further places to find information and support:

Rareminds Resources

Rareminds have resources for all aspects of living with a rare condition, with sections dedicated to diagnosis, uncertainty, change and loss, relationships, feelings, healthcare navigation and many other challenges.

Podcast

Rareminds also have a brilliant podcast to support mental health and cover all aspects of living with a rare condition. You can read our interview with Kym, founder and CEO of Rareminds or click below to listen.

More places to find support and information

Contact other national charities